ICRAVE Purpose vs. Goals

  • While goals are chosen, a purpose is discovered.
  • “Living your dreams,” means a life of movement from dream to dream, always on purpose.
  • People often have trouble reaching a goal, which can interfere with living on purpose.
  • People misdefine purpose as something to get to
  • An actor’s purpose is “I am a joyful entertainer” instead of saying “I want to be a big actor”
    • Set goals within your purpose that are clearly defined.

“The great thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving.” –  Oliver Wendell Holmes

What is your purpose?

If you want to make a significant improvement and advancements in your lives, change comes through involvement, and involvement means doing.

Re-source: Reassessment

  • Start listing all your positive qualities
    • Compassionate? Joyful?  Loving?  Loyal?  Happy?  Tender?  Caring?
  • Start listing actions you find nurturing – the positive things you like doing most.
    • Giving?  Sharing?  Exploring?  Teaching?  Learning?
  • What are your best qualities? And What activities do you find give you the most satisfaction?
  • Consider the people you admire most.  What is it you admire about them?  What qualities do they embody?  Those same qualities are true about you , too, so write them down.
  • Start to play around with the qualities and actions in a sentence that starts with “I am…” 
    • There is usually room for only one or two qualities and an action.
      • “I am a cheerful giver,” “I am a joyful explorer,” “I am a compassionate friend.”
  • A voice inside will say, “Yes, this is what I’ve always done, and this is what I’ll always be doing.”
  • Keeping your purpose to yourself is not so much secret as it is sacred. 
    • Consider it a beautiful plant.  Keep the roots (the essence of the purpose) deep within yourself, and let the world share in its fruits.

craving and resource from “DO IT! – Let’s get of our buts” by John-Roger and Peter Mcwilliams