“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
- Who you are is who you attract.
- In most situations, you draw people to you who possess the same qualities, values, and priorities you do.
“A leader’s potential is determined by those closest to him or her.”
– John C. Maxwell
- While these concepts are often discussed in the context of business, they apply to success and significance in any and every domain of life.
- whether that’s getting into better shape, eating better, being a great parent, improving your spiritual fitness, and so on.
If you want to experience tremendous success and make a real significant impact, you need to surround yourself with incredible people who help you maximize your full potential, and vice versa.
- Emotions, thoughts, and habits are contagious.
- We were made for relationships, and we all need other people to live our lives to our full potential.
- Place a priority on loving people, seek to add value to them and their lives, and when you do, the better your life will be.
“Working to build a better self almost always means working to build a better community.”
Brad Stulberg and Steve Magness (Authors of Peak Performance)
Re-source: Relation
the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected; a thing's effect on or relevance to another
- Value people every day – You can’t look down on others and build them up at the same time.
- Recognize people publicly, complement them in writing, and practice gratitude daily.
- Make yourself more valuable to others – The quickest way to improve any relationship is to make yourself better so you have more to give others.
- Put yourself in someone else’s world – Often, the best thing we can do for someone else is to recognize when they’re in a time of need and being present for them.
- “A person starts to live when he can live outside himself.” – Albert Einstein
- Focus on giving, not receiving – To foster great relationships, you have to want more for people than you want from them.
- Be a consistent friend – Place a high value on your relationships, believe the best of people, and love unconditionally.
- Create great memories for people – Wherever you are, be there.
- No matter how big or small the moment may seem to you, you can make them special for others by being present and intentional with your time, thoughts, and actions.
- Move towards the kinds of relationships you desire – Put yourself in position to meet and spend time with the kind of people who share your values and priorities, and who think positively.
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